tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6448150671758169257.post1055499314011910020..comments2023-10-20T05:20:06.726-05:00Comments on JuneBug Talk: The Problem I have with Home WreckersUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6448150671758169257.post-34307153277552377922011-03-05T10:21:23.878-06:002011-03-05T10:21:23.878-06:00I agree that marriage is disrespected in every kin...I agree that marriage is disrespected in every kind of way, but not always is it the person who is getting cheated on fault. Sometimes they can think their spouse (the cheater) is happy and does not see a need to cheat. When we do marry we need to make sure we are ready. Not only is there alienation of affection laws but death can be the result sometimes. Let us be careful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6448150671758169257.post-33570793146910075412010-09-15T13:15:11.266-05:002010-09-15T13:15:11.266-05:00@Anonymous Now you mentioned something I haven...@Anonymous Now you mentioned something I haven't ever heard before among my married friends and family members. Husbands don't want their wives to explore their inner freakdom. Wow! Well, wait when I think about women could legally be raped by their husbands in many states until the 1970s, so maybe we didn't have the right to express ourselves sexually. Most of the guys I know have admitted to wanting "a lady on the street, but a freak in the sheets."<br /><br />@Bri Thanks for stopping by JBT! I'm sorry to hear of your families' personal experience with a homewrecker. I'll be hitting up Passion.Fruit later today!<br /><br />@Mz Kewe Though women can be catty and disagreeable; I think there is an unspoken sisterhood among women and a code. Once you violate that code by doing what some states call "alienating the affection" of a married man, it's a wrap. You will feel the wrath of the sisterhood (LOL!), and it ain't pretty. In my opinion, the husband or wife stepping out on the marriage is to blame because he or she can always walk away from the marriage instead of cheating. In addition, to knowingly engage with a married man or woman is NOT okay, and you little homewrecker are also to blame. I'm just saying.Ms MaSharihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11494679320196778015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6448150671758169257.post-68753892421118031712010-09-14T17:10:24.040-05:002010-09-14T17:10:24.040-05:00I have a problem with home wreckers too. Watched m...I have a problem with home wreckers too. Watched my parent's marriage break up because of one. I shall not say more except to say that I really really dig your blog -- your topics are relevant and powerful!<br /><br />Thank you for checking me out on 20sb.net. You've got a new follower here!Brihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07081995597066974490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6448150671758169257.post-4365133185289017122010-09-07T13:06:29.995-05:002010-09-07T13:06:29.995-05:00I would agree that temptation is a mutha! It's...I would agree that temptation is a mutha! It's about keeping all lines of communications open. I am a realist and some folks won't agree with me on this, but I have the most candid boyfriend and we discuss anything and everything. I now understand the minds of men to a certain degree or his mind rather. A lot of men cheat and that is just REALITY!!! We can fuss, belly ache, and complain about it, but that's what it is. It's been like that since the beginning of time. In some cultures it is accepted... LOL! Men like to put their wives in a box sexually and don't want them to be expressive. They go out and cheat with the "freak" and would rather do that than to allow the "wife" to explore her freaky side. Take Tiger for example, because of his social status, he dare not have one of those women on his arm that he committed those indiscretions with.His wife was more socially acceptable, but when it was time for him to get down right dirty, he had to go outside of his marriage to do this! A lot of men do it apparently. According to the news reports, he and these women got down right freaky and kinky,and he able to do with these women things he couldn't do or wouldn't explore with his wife. I feel like this, if we are together, why not let's go all the way together, or at least as far as each is comfortable with. Why go outside the confines of your marriage to get your kinky freakyon. Why not explore that with your mate??? It is safer, results in less hurt or heartbreak... WOMEN are so quick to say what they won't do but if you don't do it, someone else will. Get mad, but it's the truth. Why not go to a strip club with your husband??? SO scared that he may "look" at someone else? It's a complex issue and I would agree that ALL parties are to blame in the instance of cheating... even the heartbroken wife. SEX is just one issue that makes men cheat... sure there are others, but men use this one as the primary reason which is why I touched on it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6448150671758169257.post-48342467233601776832010-09-07T04:29:16.491-05:002010-09-07T04:29:16.491-05:00Oh, I wish it was true
That you missed me
like I ...Oh, I wish it was true <br />That you missed me<br />like I miss you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6448150671758169257.post-51070179792508417822010-09-03T21:45:24.959-05:002010-09-03T21:45:24.959-05:00@ "Anonymous said... its damn near impossibl...@ "Anonymous said... its damn near impossible for a man NOT to cheat lol.. or to want to cheat."<br /><br />i HOPE SHE CHEATS ON YOU WITH ABASKET BALL PLAYER!! HAve You seen how many women "GET THERE FREAK ON" behind there mans back. It doesn't matter if your male or female. all people cheat. The person who is never at ever at fault is the misstress/toot it and boot it. Why? because at any point you can say i'm faithul or i'm loyal to the one i love. <br /><br />P.S. It's a mans world!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6448150671758169257.post-52022948132919995832010-09-03T21:00:01.649-05:002010-09-03T21:00:01.649-05:00tryed to reply last night but like chris rock said...tryed to reply last night but like chris rock said.... its damn near impossible for a man NOT to cheat lol.. or to want to cheat.<br /><br />I think ALL are to blame, including the wife. but especially the mistress. and to a certain extent the man lol. (ima dude)<br /><br />the man is wrong because he made the wrong decision. point blank. he fucked up and he cant turn back...<br /><br />the reason i say the wife too is that there is obvious something not being fulfilled in the relationship. something hes not getting (unless... hes just a greedy muthafukka)<br /><br />and lastly. these mistresses are 100% wrong (along with the man) because these women always happen to be rich, beautiful and can have any man they choose.. you should hear dudes talk, me included, when it comes to some of the celebs.. instead they like to go for whats already taken and most of the time they succeed for one reason or another.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6448150671758169257.post-72602903002968694632010-09-03T00:03:05.619-05:002010-09-03T00:03:05.619-05:00No one honors the comvenant of marriage much these...No one honors the comvenant of marriage much these days. Its sad and its really shows you how much of a lack of integrity there is in the world period. You are right the media doesnt seem to really attack the men in these type situations. Remember Jude Law ,and Ethan Hawk? They cheated but was branded with a scarlet letter either very sad for the wives divorces are hard picking up the peices are a tribulation especially when thier are children involved.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6448150671758169257.post-9180590941821942402010-09-02T19:49:47.308-05:002010-09-02T19:49:47.308-05:00Thank you for sharing such a personal experience.....Thank you for sharing such a personal experience...and *HAND CLAP* on pointing out the real culprit!Ms Quihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15700088094136561568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6448150671758169257.post-48758477913013146542010-09-02T16:06:00.447-05:002010-09-02T16:06:00.447-05:00I am going to respond from a very personal perspe...I am going to respond from a very personal perspective. My ex husband was a philanderer when I met him, but I thought I would be that one to stop him. It was great for the first few years; however, that philandering spirit came back out and there he was at it again. I always had suspicions but never acted upon them as I didn't have sure proof until I got a call from this woman one day who he had been fooling with for two years unbeknownst to me. He was away in a different state (military) and they developed a relationship. YES, I could have been mad at this woman and accused her of breaking up our ALREADY decaying marriage. That would have been easy to do, but I am a realist and I knew that our marriage was on a already unstable foundation so first, I faulted myself for not following my gut instincts which I know all the wives had in all these cases, then I faulted my ex husband because he took the vows and made the promises, not the other woman. She owes me nothing. There was no telling what he was telling this woman so I did not take the easy way out and blame her. YES, I was angry at her for making it easy for him to cheat but to blame this woman for the demise of my marriage was in no way fair to her. I don't understand who mandated a law where ex wives could sue a mistress! WTF?! Government is mandating all kinds of frivilous laws when there are serious ones on the books waiting to pass through legislature. A dollar amount can't restore a marriage! Someone may get mad at this comment but I don't care, cheating is a precursor to other underlying issues in the marriage. I know that there are woman who go after married men and there's nothing we can do to stop them. It's up to these men to either take marriage vows seriously or don't get married at all. It's that simple.Michelle D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06673647852713207685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6448150671758169257.post-78158025242687779962010-09-02T13:50:02.222-05:002010-09-02T13:50:02.222-05:00PUH-LEASE don't get me started on this one!
I...PUH-LEASE don't get me started on this one!<br /><br />I could go 'round in circles on this, but to answer your question of 'who is the REAL homewrekcer?'<br /><br />The one leaving his or her home and roaming around!!<br /><br />The side piece usually is the one who gets the invitation and decides whether or not to accept with the information (true or untrue) that is presented, but who makes the offer??<br /><br />People can specualte all day on the reasons of WHY the man or woman is having his/her cake and eating it, too...AND...people can also try to blame the OTHER person, but at the end of the day, no one can break up what you have unless you ALLOW them in.<br /><br />So, yea...whoever left the door open is to blame!Ms Quihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15700088094136561568noreply@blogger.com