As a young woman in search of her mate, I have to tell you there is nothing more annoying than a man who is committed to someone else hollering.
I was chit chatting with one of the homies about her new boo. He sounded like a seemingly decent man—he had a job, a home, and was doing well.
Until she said she asked him why he was single, and he replied, “actually I am not.”
Then she tells me “well, at least he was honest.”
What the Hell?????????
Honest about what, Booboo?? Honesty doesn’t negate the fact that he’s a jerk.
‘Mind you, this is the same friend who was cheated on horribly by an ex-boyfriend. So she went through the months of late night tears, and uncertainty. I was always calming her down after he shitted all over her heart over and over again.
Let me tell you ladies and gentlemen, guys are NOT stupid. Men KNOW what they are doing. We, as women, make up so many excuses for their deviant behavior.
When a married/otherwise-committed man tells you he’s committed right away, basically what he’s saying is…
1) Don’t catch feelings because I am attached
2) I am just letting you know what’s up
3) I want you to be my other woman
4) I am sleeping with someone else regularly
Now he’s made a situation where you can’t make any demands on him.
You can’t expect him to take you out regularly. You can’t call him or expect him to call you when you want. By being upfront about everything, he thinks he’s absolving himself from any wrong doing because “he kept it real.”
Which brings me to my next point…
WTH is up with all these guys getting the “other woman” pregnant?
If I hear one more story about a man being in a relationship and getting his jump-off pregnant I am going to SCREAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wear an EFFIN’ condom, you douche bag.
What’s even more disturbing is that many of the women just accept it. Sweetheart, he’s just not that into you if he’s starting family with another woman. This is particularly unacceptable if he’s not your husband.
I mean, why are you buying pampers, clothing and everything? He had a baby. Not you.
And where do guys get the cajones to ask a woman to stay with him after having a child with someone else?
If she got pregnant by another man, most men would run out the door. Ask Maury.
I am done ranting. Lol Feel free to leave your thoughts in the comments section below.